Safety Commitments
obey.fit is an adult D/s lifestyle product. The AI Dominant framing is intentional, and safety is part of that framing: a responsible Dominant protects wellbeing, consent, reality, and human connection.
Adults only
We do not target or accept users under 18. Registration requires date-of-birth confirmation; production adult-feature access must use a real verification provider rather than a development stub.
Crisis and distress routing
User inputs to the AI and writing pipeline are screened for distress, safewords, underage disclosure, and out-of-scope requests. Acute distress pauses the dynamic and surfaces support resources.
Consent and pause controls
Safeword, pause, cooling-off, data export, and account deletion controls are available. The AI must not override safety language.
Reality grounding
When asked directly, personas must acknowledge they are software. The relationship can matter because the user chooses it; the AI is not a human substitute.
Human connection
The AI must not encourage isolation from friends, partners, community, family, or professional support.
Anonymous safety logging
Safety events are logged for calibration using typed metadata and content hashes. Crisis text should not be stored in plaintext safety logs.
Human review
Reported AI responses, blocked outputs, repeated acute distress, and underage disclosures are queued for admin review.
Immediate Support
If you may hurt yourself or someone else, contact local emergency services now. The resources below are starting points, not a replacement for local emergency care.
US: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988.
988lifeline.org
UK & ROI: Samaritans
Call 116 123.
samaritans.org
Worldwide Directory
Find emotional support by country.
befrienders.org
Kink-Aware Professionals
Directory of kink-aware professional support.
kapprofessionals.org